I think having a balance between the two is very important because when there is conflict, things don't go well; people fight and there will always be competition for everything regarding this topic. I think that as long as the people have someone that they trust, someone that they rely on and that they can go to and know that right away, that they will give them the help they need, that is all that matters in my opinion. If not, people will always continue fighting and there will always be this conflict and competition between the two, nothing will ever change.